The Essence of mean people and women of strength

To all my Women Readers: Today I learned something of real importance. I learned that there is a difference between a strong woman versus a woman of strength. We as women endure quite a bit in a world so dominated by men. We are the product of our environment. No matter what we tell ourselves we are shaped by our lifestyle contained by the experiences we encounter. Sometime we can't help but be a product of those who belittle us, torment us and curtail our love for ourselves. It is important to know that know matter how much people try to suck the air of out us, we must remain true to ourselves and continue to love the person we are. I sometimes have doubt there is a god, especially when things go wrong. I wonder to myself why god is doing this to me? Only to find out it is not god who is doing this but it is those who hate themselves. Those who hate themselves and who have such disdain for the person they represent are usually the ones who have empty sad lives. Those who are mean want nothing more then to inject their pitiful lives onto those who can't fit in to their life of misery.


I consider myself a woman of strength. I gained my strength from my existence. Those who are intimidated by the strong are the weak. People who say hurtful things do it only to justify their bitter and complacent existence. Most people just exist in this world. I refuse to just exist. I rest on my accomplishments. The most successful people in life have had to overcome controversy. Talk to those who are brilliant successful people and you will discover that what they accomplished was not given to them. People complain about their lives and never do anything about it. Sometimes it is a waiting game. Sometimes you have to endure the idiomatic complexities of life to get to the top. Sometime you have to wait until the dead wood disintegrates into ashes. It is important not to sink to a level that is beneath you. There will be those who try and pull you down into their own depths of madness and insanity. There will be those that are so overcome with distraughtful anger and resentment. But it is important not to let the green eyed monster take you down into the depths of their soul less illusion. So with that I dedicate this site to those women of strength, those loving women who are not only good to themselves but to others. Learn lessons from the bad and be thankful you are not a part of their hypocrisies. Here is a poem I found that rings true to my heart. I hope to live by it as I maintain my ability to be a loving and kind soul. Thank you to all the people I have met who have supported me in the person I am. And be mindful of this: Believe in your heart your goodness and strength and remember that in life what comes around goes around. I have lived long enough to be rest assured that those who are inherently mean will get theirs in the end. If they don't get theirs while living on this great planet of ours they will get it when they leave. God only gives us what we can handle. I am sure of that.



A Strong Woman VS a Woman of Strength
A strong woman works out every day to keep her body in shape ...but a woman of strength kneels in prayer to keep her soul in shape...
A strong woman isn't afraid of anything ...but a woman of strength shows courage in the midst of her fear...
A strong woman won't let anyone get the best of her ...but a woman of strength gives the best of her to everyone...
A strong woman makes mistakes and avoids the same in the future...a woman of strength realizes life's mistakes can also be God's blessings and capitalizes on them...
A strong woman walks sure footedly ...but a woman of strength knows God will catch her when she falls...
A strong woman wears the look of confidence on her face ...but a woman of strength wears grace...
A strong woman has faith that she is strong enough for the journey ...but a woman of strength has faith that it is in the journey that she will become strong...